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I realize I’ve been noticeably absent from the blog-o-sphere the last month or so. I was awash in accounting homework, putting the finishing touches on thetarotparlor.com and being very absorbed with some non-tarot creative writing projects. But now that the term is wrapped up I have a lot more time to write about tarot and so here I am. Hi. Missed you. 🙂
Today I wanted to mention a couple things that I’ve learned over the course of my tarot reading career. In the almost three years I’ve been reading, a handful of things have really stuck with me and I wanted to share.
- There is no teacher quite like experience
No amount of book learning, studying tarot, or even journaling will teach you how to read tarot as well as just reading tarot. I believe that getting a solid foundation of tarot education is important, but as soon as you possibly can start actually doing readings. My own progress made leaps and bounds when I started doing readings with greater frequency and when I started reading for others. Even as I’ve gotten more experienced I’ve found that nothing brushes up my skills faster than some good old fashioned practice.
- Its ok to start a reading slowly
I have a bad habit. When I first lay down the cards I feel this immense pressure to jump right in and start the reading, especially when I’m reading for others and extra especially during in-person readings. Sometimes that works, but usually it just makes me panic. What I’ve come to realize is that once the cards are laid down, its ok, nay, its a damn good idea, to take a deep breath, sit back and just look at the spread. What cards are calling to you? Do you see any patterns demanding your attention? Taking this time to observe the whole picture allows you to get centered, gather your thoughts and listen for those intuitive hits. I usually tell my client I’m going to take a minute to look at the cards before I start, so that they aren’t sitting there anxiously wondering what’s going on. Another advantage of this tactic is that sometimes a certain card will catch your eye and give you a starting point from which the reading can flow.
- A reading is as much about asking the right questions as it is about interpreting the cards
This is the epiphany that’s been rocking my world most recently. Its obvious in a tarot reading that you’re going to interpret the messages that the cards are communicating, but what has really made a tarot reading come alive for me is when the cards make me ask myself, or my client, more questions. Its easy to say “The Chariot is indicating that you need to take control of your life,” its infinitely more helpful to look at the Chariot and ask “Where in your life do you feel like you aren’t in control? What could you do to reclaim your power in that area?”
- Intuit out of the box and go with the flow
I’m a super swordsy, logical, analytical person. One of the hardest things for me to do as my tarot practice had progressed, is to release my iron grip on the book meanings of tarot cards and to let my readings flow. It never fails though, when I let the intuition lead, good things happen. I don’t abandon my intellectual understanding of the system and its always there for me to fall back on, but when I’m giving more attention to how the spread is making me feel and what the images are communicating I end up giving a more powerful and profound reading, pretty much every time.
- An easy reading doesn’t equal a good reading and a hard reading doesn’t equal a bad reading
The value of a reading isn’t measured in how well it flowed, or how clearly the messages came through, but how helpful and insightful it was. Some of the most profound readings I’ve ever given or received required a lot of work. Its great when a reading flows and is also profound, that’s the best of both worlds, but if you find yourself struggling to understand your cards its not a sign that you are a bad reader or that your reading isn’t effective. It likely means that you’ve hit on an important, perhaps complicated issue that is going to require some dissecting.
- You have nothing to prove
Giving a tarot reading isn’t about showing off your mad tarot skills, at least not primarily. Giving a tarot reading is about providing the most insightful and helpful information you can to your querent, whether you’re reading for someone else or yourself. Its totally great to give yourself kudos after doing a kick-ass reading, but keep it in perspective. Performance anxiety thrives when you let your ego drive…Ooo, I like that…I’m gonna tweet the heck outta that…anyway, take the pressure off yourself and keep in mind that its not about you, its about giving your querent the information they need.
What about you? What has reading tarot taught you about reading tarot?